You might have to give us an introduction on how to use these things, I can see where to change the default profile but it would be good if we could figure out how to keep our current style (colors etc) so we don't have to change everything to match. So any tips on how to do so would be appreciated (I imagine I just have to copy some css over from somewhere).
The reply i received from Ppiotr was "No, even admins cannot change wiki skin and end up with something like gaming. Gaming (and a few other wiki) are running on a different codebase than other wiki. An experiment of sorts." So it seems like we cant get a style like Gaming anyway.
On the bright side a new version of quartz skin is being developed more similar to the monobook style wikipedia has. Perhaps until then we could make wikisocial more appealing by;
Creating a nicer wide logo
Changing the background colour and other colours of the skin
Working on the main page to make it more 'new user' friendly. (Its more functional than the old one at least)